What is acknowledgement?
I have a specific meaning for Acknowledgement, so let me define it for you.
In the words of Barbara Semeniuk,
Acknowledging someone is different than complimenting them. To acknowledge someone is to recognize a talent, gift or characteristic that is unique to them. Instead of acknowledging, most of us have learned to compliment each other. We comment on something we like about another instead of focusing our remarks on who they are. Compliments are usually about us ( I think you did a great job on this project, I admired your performance). Using the word “ I” is a clue that it’s about you. When acknowledging the accomplishments of others, the goal is to make it about them. Let me give you an example of what I mean.
My neighbours have the best garden on the street…it is an oasis of beauty and calm with fountains, birds, and greenery and flowers, glorious flowers! I happened to catch my neighbour working in the garden and I said to him, “ I love the flowers you planted, thank you,” then I acknowledged his gift more personally by saying “ You have such a beautiful garden. Thank you so much for taking the time and energy to share your gift with the neighbourhood!
It was a win-win situation, it made him feel good and it made me feel good about myself.
Dan Weigold says,
It’s not easy however it is a powerful, powerful way to let someone know they are important and matter.
Just say in an authentic manner and a genuine manner as well, “I want to thank you for __________”.
Micheal Angier says,
In my personal coaching, acknowledgment comes after my client’s have taken action. However acknowledgment is not just about the action, it is about who my client’s are ‘being’ while they are taking action. I acknowledge my client’s for their values and their purpose and not just their activity. I cheer them on, support them to take the next step with courage and mental strength, and help them to see what they did to get their results.
Try acknowledging yourself today; tomorrow try acknowledging someone else; the next day, ask someone to acknowledge you :)
